Matt and Becki Dillingham

A-Z of Lockdown in England

Now we are back in Chad we've been looking back at the 3 months we spent in England. We enjoyed being able to do things that we can't do in Chad and don't usually have time for when we come back for home assignment. We've compiled an A-Z list of things that we did during our unexpected break during the Coronavirus lockdown.

Spending time with Jack

A is for Animals

We lived with Matt's parents, who have a 2 year old dog named Jack. Luke took a while to warm to him but after repeatedly explaining that "my are the boss" they had a good relationship. Bethan devoted a lot of time training him to "stay close", which he most definitely did, rarely leaving the children's side in whatever activity they were doing. Bethan enjoyed visiting some horses in a field nearby and both of them enjoyed watching and feeding Grandpa's fish.

B is for Biopsy

Earlier in the year, Becki noticed a breast lump and while in the UK, went to the doctor to get it checked out. She was referred to the hospital for a biopsy. Waiting for the results was a worrying time but thankfully the results came back that it was a fibroadenoma.

C is for Completing School

Like many schools, Wellspring Academy closed at the end of March and after the Easter break, the teachers provided work each week for students to complete. Bethan spent the mornings hard at work, with a mixture of working through workbooks by herself (with Becki working at the same table, on hand to help and keep her concentrating), some maths, science and reading with Daddy, art with Becki and creative writing with Grandma. School finished in mid-June so she had a month of summer holidays too.

D is for Doctors

Soon after we arrived, Luke had to go to the doctors surgery in town for some injections that he was due. He wasn't happy and vowed never to "go to town" again. Unfortunately he was due a further injection a month later and quickly cottoned on when I tried to put him in the car. He screamed at me for the next hour until it was finally over and now has a great dislike of doctors. At the end of our stay, an innocuous graze on his knee became infected and we wanted him checked out. Despite the protests he eventually agreed to show the doctor his knee. The doctor had grown up in Africa and his stories made Luke laugh so hopefully he has prevented a lifelong fear of doctors. His knee eventually cleared up.

E is for Easter Egg hunt

We had arrived in the land of good chocolate just in time for Easter, and with much more suitable temperatures we set up an outdoor Easter Egg hunt. The children loved searching the garden with their rabbit ears on. Also Daddy and Grandpa learned an important lesson about not stealing chocolate from children!

Catching tadpoles to raise into frogs

F is for Frogs

It was a nice change to come back to England during spring, rather than summer and the kids found a small fish tank to keep some tadpoles. They enjoyed watching them develop into froglets and we bought them a book on the subject. Luke memorised many facts about them and enjoyed testing us on his new found knowledge. Some of the frogs were released into a pond in the garden so we might even see them again next year.

G is for Games

There were plenty of games played while we were in England. Bethan and Luke really enjoyed playing Frustration and Ludo. Bethan played draughts with Grandpa and learnt some new card games from Grandma. We bought Telestrations after playing it with friends in Chad and had entertaining games as a family. Becki and I had some child free time playing Codenames (over the internet) with some friends who were stuck in Uganda.

H is for Haircut

The fact that the hairdressers were closed was not a problem for me or the kids as Becki normally cuts our hair anyway, but Becki wanted hers cut before we went back to Chad (she had a bad haircut experience in Madagascar) so Bethan stepped up to the mark and offered/begged to cut it. Over two long sittings, one afternoon she did her very first haircut and actually did a great job!

I is for Internet

We appreciated having fast internet without a limit of how many Gigabytes we could use. Becki spent a lot of time on calls with MAF colleagues, so this was vital for her, but we also spent a lot of time online ordering supplies to take back with us.  Birthday and Christmas presents, clothes for the year ahead and materials/tools for woodwork projects planned were all ordered as well as things requested from our colleagues in Chad both personally and for work. Our most frequented website during our time in England was "Tchadinfos" - where latest news in Chad is published - as we waited for news on when the airport would reopen.

J is for Jumpers

We were blessed with glorious weather for much of our stay but coming from Chad which was approaching 40 degrees Celsius in March, we all felt cold. Becki in particular spent most of the time in a jumper!

K is for Kart

One morning Bethan had an idea of building a go-kart, which could be pulled along by the dog. I liked the idea of doing a project with her and rummaged through the garage for suitable parts. Using an old hand-drill, 4 stabiliser wheels and lots of wood, we built it in a day. The dog wasn't interested in pulling the combined weight of the kart and a child but the children had fun playing with it in the garden.



L is for Lathing

I have always enjoyed making things out of wood and my Dad owns a wood lathe so having some time on my hands, I took the opportunity to learn wood turning. Becki asked my if I could make a child's tea-set so after grasping the basics, I made a selection of cups and plates for the kids. I quickly became hooked and was spending more and more time in the garage, making one more thing as a new idea came to me.

M is for Melons

Bethan developed a keen interest in gardening while we were in England and after eating a melon, decided to plant the seeds in pots. A few days later she had 24 melon plants sprouting! Spotting a way to make money, she decided to set up a table outside the house to sell her plants and they sold well, making herself some extra pocket money.

N is for No Visiting

Since we've lived abroad, any visit to England is a busy time of travelling and visiting friends and supporters around the country. This time, with the nation told to stay at home where possible, we saw very few people. In our first six weeks the only places we went were the doctors and to the field near the house. Knowing that we were so close to friends and family but unable to visit them was frustrating.

O is for Operations

Not the surgical ones! The MAF Chad operations, which were managed from a table in Wimborne rather than the hangar in N'Djamena. As well as the day-to-day management of her team and emailing customers, there were video calls with colleagues in the UK office, Chad and in programs all around the world. She also spent lockdown writing the Ground Ops Manual, a detailed document on all aspects of Ground Operations, which will be invaluable for training staff.

P is for Post

One of the highlights of the day was the postman coming to the house. Luke misunderstood how the postal service worked and thought you could ask the postman for whatever you wanted and he would bring it. The children enjoyed wrapping parcels and putting it through the letterbox and a visit to see the postbox down the road was an almost daily occurrence.

Q is for Quiet

We arrived in England during lock-down and immediately noticed how quiet the roads were on the drive back from the airport. N'Djamena hadn't noticeably changed before we left but in England there was no-one around and it felt very odd. After the first 6 weeks, when some shops and businesses started to reopen, the noise levels gradually increased again but it was nice while it lasted.

R is for Riding bikes

We bought a couple of child's bikes that were listed for sale just a few miles from where we were living. This turned out to be a great decision as Bethan loved the freedom of riding around where we lived and Luke soon learned how to ride by himself. On Saturday mornings we loaded the bikes on the car and explored different parts of the Castleman Trailway.





S is for Snooker

In the corner of the garage we found a 6 foot snooker table that had been sat, unused for 20 years. We got it set up but the wood was warped which made it unstable and sloped (not ideal). After experimenting with sandbags tied to one end to try and unbend the surface I decided a proper rebuild was necessary. Becki wasn't best pleased about the snooker table drying in our already crowded bedroom! Playing snooker and pool was a daily activity on fine days and Bethan got a child-sized cue and improved greatly. Now I have plans to build one in Chad!

T is for Treehouse

While we were away, an impressive treehouse and rope bridge was constructed on our compound in Chad. We did the same on a much smaller scale, making a treehouse for the children's sylvanians to live in and building a tree house out of toilet rolls for a competition to win a years' supply of childrens' science magazines. We didn't win but had a lot of fun building it together as a family.

U is for UN flight

With the airport in Chad continuing to postpone re-opening, the only way of getting back to Chad before August was to try and get seats on the flights put on for UN workers by the World Food Program. They use Ghana as a hub for the rest of Africa so we took a commercial flight to Ethiopia and then UN flights to Ghana and then onto Chad, arriving 4 days after leaving England. We were a bit apprehensive about that amount of travelling with 2 children but it all went very smoothly.

V is for Vegetable patch

Bethan and Luke enjoyed working on the vegetable patch, planting seeds, training runner beans, digging up potatoes, keeping caterpillars away from the cauliflower leaves and putting up netting to keep the birds away. They loved getting muddy and learning about growing your own food.



W is for Walks

For the first six weeks, daily exercise was the only thing that you were allowed to leave the house for, so going for a walk became something to really look forward to. Luke enjoyed the flowers (and going past the post box) and Bethan enjoyed running after the dog and going in the pond to retrieve the ball when Jack refused!

Answering the quiz at the last Explosion club session,
here Bethan actually attended from our room in Ghana.

X is for eXplosion club

Bovey Baptist Church is one of our supporting churches and they invited Bethan to join their online youth group on a Tuesday evening. This was a highlight of her week. She enjoyed the Bible stories, crafts and gaining points for successfully memorising memory verses. It was nice for her to do something with other children, which she was otherwise unable to do during lockdown.




Y is for Youtube

One afternoon's activity involved the children and Grandma putting on a show for us about the
planets. They both sang along to different planet songs on Youtube while holding up planet puppets that they had made. One of these songs stuck in their heads and before long, both of them were singing the whole song by heart, learning lots of facts about the planets in the process! Then it transpired that there was also a song about the dwarf planets to the same tune, so this was also learnt and their obsession with our Solar System grew. These tunes became the soundtrack for lockdown.

Z is for Zoom

It was good to be able to speak to friends and colleagues who were in different places, at the same time via Zoom. MAF were excellent at keeping us updated throughout this difficult time for the organisation and we were glad to have the opportunity to speak with our colleagues in program while we were away.

Congratulations, you made it to the end! We hope that you enjoyed reading about what we've been up to these last few months. At the end of this week we will have finished our quarantine at home. Becki will have a flight on Friday to become "current" again on the Cessna 182 and in a couple of weeks, an instructor pilot will arrive in Chad to complete her training on the Caravan.

Bethan and Luke drew a road on some wood from the garage, Covid social distance measures are in place in their imaginary town.